Social Media & Divorce

Social media is a large presence in most people's lives and it can have an effect on both marriage and divorce. In fact, numerous studies have shown there is a positive correlation between increased social media use and decreased marriage quality.

Social media use alone does not lead to divorce, but it can be a contributing factor. In studies, some people cited their partners excessive use of social media as the source of destruction for their relationship. For others, the social media platforms were breeding grounds for jealousy, whether founded or not. When the relationship suffers beyond repair, social media can be used as evidence during the divorce process as well. 

In Florida, posts on social network platforms, such as Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, are admissible as evidence. The posts can be used to prove things such as non-compliance with a protective order, financial status, care (or lack of care) of children, character evidence, and more. The posts you make on social media can impact the judges decision on alimony, child support, and even custody of your children. 

Does this mean you need to remove yourself from social media completely? No, but you should post with discretion. Here are some tips to follow: 

1. Change all passwords on your accounts. Be sure the new passwords are ones that will not be easily decoded by your soon to be ex or family members. 
2.  Check the privacy settings on all of your accounts and be sure you know who can see what you post. 
3.  Choose your words carefully. Even seemingly innocent statements can lead to trouble. 
4.  Be sure the photos you post are family friendly. 
5.  Social media is not the place to air grievances or post details about the divorce. 

Keep your social media light and fun. Use it as a positive distraction during a difficult time, not a weapon to disparage your ex or rant about the divorce proceedings. Remember, once something is posted online, it can be impossible to erase. You don’t want to regret posting something that shines you in a negative light before the judge, family members, friends, or even your children. 

When children are involved, you may want to address social media use after the divorce as well. For example, create an agreement about child related posts to ensure your wishes about their privacy are respected. 

The attorneys at The Law Office of Pamela J. Helton are experienced in handling divorce proceedings and can answer your specific questions regarding divorce and social media. Please call us at 352-243-9991 and we will be happy to assist you.